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Stop Seeing Your Kids as Projects

by Kami Harris
Sep 17, 2025

 

The Mindset Shift Every Homeschool Mom Needs

 

Do you ever feel like your kids are standing in the way of your homeschool plans? In this episode, we’ll talk about a powerful idea from the Arbinger Institute: the difference between seeing others as objects and seeing them as people.

 

You’ll learn how to:

  • Notice when frustration is taking over

  • Shift your perspective to truly see your child’s heart

  • Bring more peace and connection into your homeschool

 

When we see our children as people with real needs and eternal worth, everything changes. Instead of battles and burnout, we can build homes filled with love, patience, and joy.

 

 

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